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My mother in-law has Alzheimer's and we have to make a choice !. we can put her into permanent care 2 She can come and live with us in the granny flat or in our spare room I'm really torn here. I don't want her to go somewhere she will hate and feel deserted and unloved. Yet if she comes and lives with us it scares me that she will totally consume my life. It is totally draining having to expl…